Profile of Childhood Caretakers

In the boxes below, list adjectives describing each of your parent's or primary caretaker's traits as you recall them from childhood. Please enter a minimum of three adjectives, entering more than three is encouraged and will give you better results. You may enter them one per line or comma-separated.

Positive Traits

Mother	Father	Other Caretaker

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Negative Traits

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Please enter at least three positive and three negative traits and select your top 3 of each before continuing.

Positive Childhood Memories

List specific positive experiences with each childhood caretaker:

Mother	Father	Other Caretaker

Feelings from Positive Memories

What feelings came up for you with each caretaker from these memories? Enter words one per line or comma-separated:

Mother	Father	Other Caretaker

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Select your most intense positive feeling:

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Please enter at least one positive memory before continuing.

Negative Childhood Memories

List specific negative experiences with each childhood caretaker:

Mother	Father	Other Caretaker

Feelings from Negative Memories

What feelings came up for you with each caretaker from these memories? Enter words one per line or comma-separated:

Mother	Father	Other Caretaker

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Select your worst childhood feeling:

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Reactions & Behaviors

Please enter at least one negative memory before continuing.

Deepest Fear with Caretakers

Growing up, what was the worst thing you feared could happen between you and your caregivers, not physically, but emotionally? (e.g. being abandoned, rejected, not good enough, controlled)

Select your biggest fear:

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Please enter at least one fear and select your biggest fear before continuing.

Deepest Unfulfilled Desire

What was your deepest unfulfilled desire with each caretaker? (e.g. always feeling safe, being appreciated, never being alone, being loved unconditionally)

Mother	Father	Other Caretaker

Please enter at least one unfulfilled desire before continuing.

My Imago

(or, Who Is My "Perfect" Partner)

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